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Hating quarrels, Librans need a harmonious atmosphere
about them at all times. They are charming, kind easy-going
with a natural desire to be diplomatic and co-operative.
They will do almost anything for peace and harmony and
are completely unsettled in an environment of discord
and conflict. Ruled by Venus, they sometimes get called
"Lazy Libra" due to the Venusian power of attraction
as they will often wait for things to come to them.
Librans find it almost impossible to function effectively
if there is conflict or unresolved conflict around them.
It will literally keep them off balance and until their
sense of equilibrium is returned they will struggle emotionally.
They are not comfortable around vulgarity and seek refinement
in all things which leads to a love of the arts and are
very often considered the perfect host/hostess.
Mentally they are cheerful, optimistic and capable of
very balanced judgement, yet they are inclined to indecision
and are easily influenced by the opinions of others. As
a consequence they can take some time to make up their
mind and therefore be accused of excessive procrastination.
Librans also get caught up seeing both sides of a an argument
or a situation, reasoning that each sides point of view
is equally valid and hence can have difficulty in making
a stand for either side.
Librans possess a deep need for a partner, someone to
do things with and is most unhappy when left to cope
with life alone. Actually, one of the best things a Libran
can do is live by themselves for a time because then they
make their choice of partner out of the desire to have
an interdependent relationship as opposed to a co dependant
relationship which is rooted in fear and concern of being
lonely. If the latter applies it can prove problematical
in relationships.
In love they have achieved something of their ideal -
union with another, and though they may recognise faults
in their loved one, they will not mention it for fear
of 'disturbing the emotional balance'. They are just so
romantic and sentimental and appreciate small gestures
of affection.
Positive Traits:
Charming, Easy-going, diplomatic, refined, bringing harmony
to all situations and relationships
Negative Traits:
Indecisive, resentful, frivolous, gullible, easily influenced
by others.
Libran Occupations:
Activities include diplomat, beauty specialist, hairdresser,
social worker. Dress designing, millinery, fashion and
art dealing.
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